Unsaid

Throughout my many years of living life, one of the things I struggle to learn is to choose my words wisely. I sometimes find myself too blunt and honest or make a joke that goes just a little too far. I have an Aries sun (yes I'm an astrology nerd). I take competition and winning way too seriously it's weird.

For example if I'm flirting (THIS IS JUST AN EXAMPLE) and that person says something that isn't correct, I'd correct them immediately. This kind of results in an awkward conversation. I do these things without thinking cause they just slip out of my mouth (or my fingertips on my phone I guess).

And yes, I have, in the past, be too blunt when talking to a group of friends. They all kinda fell silent and i winced when I realised I shouldn't have said that. Oh, and, I noticed that it happens mostly when I'm nervous and want to make myself presentable. Perhaps I'm not self conscious enough when I'm nervous?

Anyways, this is a lesson I must learn, and I hope I'll figure out what is to say and what is to be left unsaid.

Sparky x